In this enlightening episode of Call Her Daring with host Kelley Daring and guest Rebecca, we explore the concept of the village and its profound impact on modern society. We discuss the historical significance of the village, the transformative effects of the Industrial Revolution, and the devaluation of women’s unpaid labor that has led to widespread isolation and lack of support.

Kelley and Rebecca share personal stories highlighting the need for a supportive community and envision a modern-day utopian village where women and mothers are truly empowered and nurtured. They delve into the idea of creating a close-knit community that fosters support, provides third spaces for connection, and encourages bartering and mutual assistance. This conversation underscores the importance of breaking societal norms and cultural expectations to build a network of safety, security, and meaningful relationships.

Join us as we outline actionable steps to start building your own supportive village, offering practical advice on how to foster community, strengthen local bonds, and enhance overall well-being.

 

Takeaways

• The concept of the village, where a community supports and nurtures individuals, has disappeared in modern society.
• The Industrial Revolution and the devaluation of women's unpaid labor played a significant role in the disintegration of the village.
• The lack of a village has led to feelings of isolation, loneliness, and exhaustion for many women.
• The current societal structure places a heavy burden on women, who are expected to work, raise children, and maintain the home without adequate support.
• Creating a modern-day village that provides support and nurtures all individuals is essential for the well-being and flourishing of society. Creating a supportive and empowering community is essential for the well-being of women and mothers.
• In a modern-day utopian village, people can trade and barter for goods and services, eliminating the need for monetary transactions.
• Third spaces, such as parks, town squares, and local businesses, play a crucial role in fostering connections and providing a sense of community.
• Breaking societal norms and cultural expectations can lead to more fulfilling and supportive relationships among women.
• Building relationships with neighbors and fostering a sense of safety and security is important for creating a close-knit community.
• Taking actionable steps, such as visiting local farmers' markets and dropping in on friends and neighbors, can help individuals start building their own supportive village.

 

Sound Bites

• "The village is like some mythical fairy tale that few women in the modern US have ever experienced."
• "The village back then was a multi-generational family living together, supporting and nurturing each other."
• "The disappearance of the village has affected everyone, not just mothers."
• "We shouldn't have to pay for this village. We should be on like this bartering system where we all benefit, we all give and we all benefit."
• "Young women are witnessing the toll that motherhood is taking on women and they are opting out of motherhood even when they might want children."
• "Let's go through the exercise of building our modern-day utopian version of the village."

 

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